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Post  witchx on Sun Nov 27, 2011 8:23 pm

Recently, I've been incredibly depressed for about two weeks. So depressed that I just didn't know what was going on with myself. I got the idea in my head that it simply could NOT be my energy that was causing such negative emotion. My boyfriend (now "ex") has been having a very hard time, whether he admits it or not. This is the first holiday season he is spending without his ex wife and kids (ages 20 & 16), she celebrates with her new boyfriend and his kids, I believe, just go elsewhere. He had basically ignored me for those same two weeks, as I thought I was just depressed because he hadn't spoken to me, however when he finally texted me he said; "I've been working and I do want it over, you've done nothing wrong I'm just in a place and don't want anybody". Realists would assume that I would be MORE depressed because of this, but the strange thing is - I'm not. It all stopped, I've been perfectly fine since then. I believe that I either felt exactly what he was feeling, or that I picked up some slack and harbored some of his pain to take a load off of him (this was INTENSE depression that I felt) either way, I strongly believe those were his feelings and it was his energy, because my own energy has never been that negative before on its own, no matter the situation. What are your all's thoughts on this? Has something similar happened to you?
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Post  Jas DelaLuna on Thu Dec 29, 2011 11:03 am

I believe that I either felt exactly what he was feeling, or that I picked up some slack and harbored some of his pain to take a load off of him (this was INTENSE depression that I felt)



You were feeling exactly as he felt, in my opinion. Your level of connectedness to him allowed your empathy to be very strong. Empathy is feeling someones emotions and energy, not taking some of it away from them.

However I would like to hear others opinions on this matter, hopefully some of the others reply Smile

And yes I have had a similar experience, as this was a very common thing between me and Joche. But since we were around eachother and I was experiencing his foul mood, it lead to lots of conflict. So in my experience this level of COMPLETE empathy, by feeling exactly as another feels, is usually not a good thing. Empathy is much more manageable when you are only feeling hints of what the other is feeling, so that you can still identify the emotion but it doesnt completely take you over. Which is how empathy usually works but their are exceptions like with your experience and my experience.

Anyone else have similar experiences to us?
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Re: Empathetic Feelings

Post  Godsmack on Thu Dec 29, 2011 2:00 pm

There have been many occasions when I've take on the emotions of others. There are times when I am completely open and aware, but there are other times where I don't notice at all. I have had a few experiences with my friends where I 'read' their emotions to them and describe them. I am mostly all the time on the dot lol
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Post  Jas DelaLuna on Fri Dec 30, 2011 11:41 pm

So it sounds like you experience moderate clairempathy, meaing that, as a psychic, you are empathic, its just not your primary psychic ability.

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Post  witchx on Sun Jan 01, 2012 3:22 am

Yeah, I've known that for a long time. I am mostly empathetic, but I also am a mixture of pretty much everything. Some weakness, some strengths.

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Post  Jas DelaLuna on Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:30 am

Well I meant it sounds like Manny isnt primarily empathic. In contrast, I completely believe you are, Kylie

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Re: Empathetic Feelings

Post  Godsmack on Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:49 am

Yes. I am empathic, but I'm not open all the time.
My main psychic ability is that of mediumship. I may not be able to see them, but I can feel and communicate with them effectively. I've been attacked many times while at my mother's house... very frightening experiences.

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Post  Jas DelaLuna on Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:55 am

I agree Mediumship is your strong point. I didnt mean you arent empathic, only that its not your strongest ability

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Post  Godsmack on Sun Jan 01, 2012 5:57 am

I completely agree lol It certainly is not my strongest point. However, it is my second strongest psychic ability in comparison to the others. Mediumship is indeed my strongest point. I say this because of what I've experienced. I'll share some more stories with all of you some time Smile

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Post  Jas DelaLuna on Sun Jan 01, 2012 9:57 am

You should definitely make a topic in the Psychic board.

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Re: Empathetic Feelings

Post  witchx on Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:05 am

This is from forever ago, did you mean me make a topic in the psychic board? Haha

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Re: Empathetic Feelings

Post  Jas DelaLuna on Mon Jan 09, 2012 9:32 am

Im not sure who I was talking to when I wrote that. I was probably telling manny to write a topic about his mediumship or tellingyou to write about your empathy. I believe youve done that though

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